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the archaeology of becoming / #22
on alllll the things i've learned since quitting my job (spoiler: not a lot)
Jul 7
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Jalyn Cai
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June 2025
single-player plan, multi-player reality / #21
on over-planning and adaptive confidence
Jun 23
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Jalyn Cai
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jumping into the deep end / #20
on turning catastrophizing into excitement
Jun 16
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Jalyn Cai
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fully charged, completely wrong / #19
on energy with purpose, and quieting false signals
Jun 10
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Jalyn Cai
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enter: the full stack / #18
on treating myself like a product (and making it work)
Jun 1
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Jalyn Cai
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enter: the full stack / #18
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May 2025
the most honest feedback loop i've looped / #17
i wore a continuous glucose monitor so you don't have to
May 25
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Jalyn Cai
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the anti-schedule nearly broke me / #16
on structure (or the lack thereof), spiraling, and starting over (again)
May 18
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Jalyn Cai
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the $350,000 mistake i almost made / #15
on ambition, approval, and opting out
May 11
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Jalyn Cai
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what i have is what i have / #14
on meditating for 60 minutes, for 60 days
May 4
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Jalyn Cai
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what i have is what i have / #14
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April 2025
turning 36 / #13
on birthdays, 3 big things, and 6 littler things
Apr 27
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Jalyn Cai
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safety first (but at what cost?) / #12
on reclaiming design control from fear's tight grip
Apr 20
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Jalyn Cai
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the teaching experiment / #11
on visiting the path not taken earlier in life
Apr 9
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Jalyn Cai
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